In High-Cost Markets, Real Estate Is Becoming a Relationship Business Again

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Steve Marcinuk

Date:

14 Apr 2026

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In high-cost housing markets, the shift away from pandemic-era urgency is exposing a more demanding reality. Buyers are more patient, sellers face greater scrutiny on pricing, and deals require more negotiation and strategy to come together. As conditions slow and expectations reset, success is increasingly defined not just by market knowledge, but by trust, visibility, and the ability to adapt to more selective demand.

Leilani Serrao-Baker, founder of Civitas Realty in South Orange County, has built her business around that shift. Her experience offers a window into how agents are adjusting to a market where relationships, pricing discipline, and local credibility are becoming as important as the transactions themselves.

The Market Is Slower — and Less Forgiving

The pace of activity has cooled, but the shift is less about decline than about discipline. Fewer bidding wars and more measured timelines have returned a sense of normalcy to transactions, yet that normal comes with tighter margins for error. Deals are more complex, with buyers and sellers often navigating simultaneous transactions and adjusting expectations in real time.

Serrao-Baker describes a market that now moves in short, rate-driven cycles — “little micro bubbles” of activity followed by quieter periods. When borrowing costs ease, demand quickly resurfaces and competition intensifies; when rates rise, momentum slows just as fast. That volatility makes timing less predictable and execution more important.

In this environment, assumptions from the past few years no longer hold. Sellers cannot rely on urgency to carry a deal, and buyers are no longer pressured into immediate decisions. The result is a market that is slower, but also less forgiving — where missteps in timing, pricing, or negotiation are more likely to derail a transaction.

Pricing Mistakes Carry Consequences

In a market with more time and less urgency, pricing has become the single most important signal — and one of the easiest ways to lose momentum. Sellers who anchor to past highs or set aspirational prices are increasingly finding that the market pushes back quickly.

“We’re seeing a lot of overpricing right now,” Serrao-Baker says, noting that a significant share of listings require reductions after failing to attract early interest. The first weeks on the market are critical. “The first two weeks of putting your property on the market are the most important. That tells you pretty much what your outcome is going to be.” Homes that miss that initial window often linger, forcing sellers to adjust expectations later.

Today’s buyers are watching closely and acting accordingly. Rather than stretching to meet inflated prices, many are waiting for corrections. “Although they really want a property, they’re not going to overpay. They’ll wait for the price reduction,” she explains.

The consequence is a sharper feedback loop: pricing mistakes are exposed faster, and the cost of getting it wrong — in time, leverage, and final sale price — is higher.

Buyers Are More Strategic

As conditions have shifted, so has buyer behavior. With more inventory to consider and less pressure to act immediately, buyers are approaching the market with greater patience and precision — weighing options, tracking price changes, and timing their offers more deliberately.

Serrao-Baker notes that today’s buyers are “extremely knowledgeable,” often entering the process with a clear understanding of value and little willingness to stretch beyond it. Rather than competing aggressively in every situation, many are targeting properties that have lingered or are likely to see adjustments, aligning their strategy with market signals rather than emotion.

At the same time, affordability constraints are pushing buyers to rethink their approach altogether. Some are entering the market through smaller or less central properties, using them as stepping stones rather than end goals. “Usually your first house isn’t your last house,” Serrao-Baker says, describing a mindset that prioritizes long-term positioning over immediate perfection.

The result is a more calculated demand base — one that is still active, but far less reactive than in recent years.

Relationships Are the Differentiator

In a market where transactions are harder to secure, how agents generate trust and visibility has become as important as how they close deals. Traditional lead generation is proving less reliable, particularly as buyers take longer to act and sellers become more sensitive to pricing and strategy.

For Serrao-Baker, that has meant building her business around consistent, non-transactional engagement. “My name got out there mostly through the stuff I do for the community,” she says, pointing to local events and initiatives that keep her connected to the neighborhoods she serves. That visibility has translated directly into business, including off-market opportunities. “I had two off-market calls recently because I’m getting calls: ‘I hear you’re the person to go to for this area.’”

This kind of embedded presence is increasingly valuable in a more selective market. As clients weigh decisions more carefully, they are also placing greater emphasis on working with agents they recognize and trust — not just those who appear at the point of transaction.

The result is a shift in what drives success: relationships built over time, local credibility, and consistent community engagement are becoming key differentiators in a market where deals no longer come easily.

About the Expert: Leilani Serrao-Baker is the founder of Civitas Realty, a brokerage based in South Orange County. Her work focuses on residential sales and community-driven engagement, offering a ground-level view of how agents are adapting to a more selective and price-sensitive market.

This article is based on information provided by the expert source cited above. It is intended for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or real estate advice. Readers should conduct their own research and consult qualified professionals before making any real estate or financial decisions.